As
the film reveals, some women earn money as surrogate mothers, especially in
India and for those who are poor and uneducated women. This new kind of career
gives them hopes and encouragements for living, and they can even earn more
money than the normal women earn.
As the situation said by Dr. Ranjana Kumari, a women's right activist in India, in the
film, it seems there is no other proper way for them to survive, but we can
learn that many women also find a new career as surrogate mothers to brighten their
way to the future. They can afford their own children's education, the
cost of taking care of their parents, and of course the life themselves.
However, some people are worried about the
surrogate mothers somehow have intimate connections to the children, how do
they feel if they send the children back to their parents? I think those women who take
the surrogate mothers as career are something like we work for our normal jobs,
we don't have strong emotional or intimate connections or feelings to the
results we work out, we just take the jobs in order to afford ourselves.
Moreover, the children even do not have strong biological connections to the
surrogate mothers besides the children are growing up in their wombs. On the
other hand, I think to be a "mother" is different. The children's
genes are ourselves, that is the children have intimate connections to us. We
always treasure those who have strong feelings or intimate connections to us,
thus I think this kind of relationship between mothers and children is more
inseparable.
Otherwise, taking the surrogate mothers as
career is more vivid in India because it's legal to have surrogate mothers and
it's more cheaper there for people to have surrogate mothers to give birth to
their children.
On the other hand, not only the surrogate mothers gain
hope in their life, the original parents also receive happiness. They will have
little adorable gifts that they may not have before. This is wonderful for
those who want to have their genetic children but they can't to fulfill their
dream. We can see the delighted smiles on the parents' faces who use surrogate
mother in the film, they solved the problems of vibriosis and had a happy life,
so why don't we use surrogate mothers and make it legalized in Taiwan? Although
some people may think we can adopt a child to solve the problem, I think
the adopted children and the genetic children are totally different because the
adopted children do not have biological connection to the parents. For some
people's concerned, this is an important point to them. However, there are also
some people do not care about it, so it's decided individually. Thus,
why don't we use surrogacy to provide more various methods to solve the
problems of vibriosis?
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